You have to think for him now, which probably feels really weird (edit: weird to both you and him!) He probably will resist, because this is all different to him, but you know there is no other safe option although he doesn't understand that.

So avoid over-explaining or trying to get his agreement.

Most Alzheimer's patients live moment to moment and get confused when too much information is coming at them, especially when it has to do with any time other than Right Now - like future plans or yesterday's visit with Alice. I found with my brother (now approaching late-stages) explaining why or giving any details can be stressful, both because of comprehension difficulties and because it triggers alertness (fear) about an upcoming change that they didn't know about. Don't make it a big deal let him know you understand the inconvenience and in spite of that, he's going to like the next place a lot. Moving is just what's going to happen next. A matter-of-fact tone works better than pleading, asking his opinion, or asking him if he's OK with the plan. Which shirt and pair of pants do you want to wear?' (Distract attention toward an easy task, to lighten the announcement about a change.)Īvoid explaining your reasons or giving too many details.

'Dad, now that we've tried this place out, we have an appointment for you to try another one.

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